Love with Loyality Deepak Sachdeva - My LifeMonday, October 25, 2010 1 comments

"Time n tide waits for none"
This statement was to know the importance of time in one's life,but nowadays this happens to be a trend in a lover ship.Earlier boys was blamed for dumping, betrayal but now girls started the same, according to survey today a average Indian guy have relation with 4 to 5 girls but girls 6 t0 8 specially in metropolitan cities.

Love has a new definition called "lust", it was said earlier by great writer that boy needs sex thats why he seek for a girlfriend and Girl need care so she seek a boyfriend..but it all have no means now, the person whether a girl or a boy who loves you will never give preference to sex, he will take it as a part of love but not love.Even girls have started using boys for same purpose.i know there are some those are loyal to their partners but some can't even try to be loyal.they promise that they will never betray, but they do ever they get the chance..I never understand what make people to cheat their partners.The cheaters changes with the time as the relationship grows they start avoiding you, "The person who get upset just because he has not heard you in a day will say you to talk in weekends just becoz he/she is depressed by office or their home" and true parents are helpless to follow this, slowly-slowly they get separated..catch a new girl or a boy, being in a relationship how can even the person search for their new partners..if they don't like, why they make promises and accept the proposals...this is human nature that we get bored of things we do daily but a true lover can't be bored..

love now has no mean, it all is need..be careful while making partners..

Some sign of cheating

1-If he/she is flirting with you,he/she will be always ready for a breakup.(excuse will be u always say and repeat these things)

2-The person will not feed your pic n number, msgs in their phones becoz they do not want to caught by their other partners.(excuse will be my family they check my phones, yeah it might be a reason from girl side..)

3-Call waiting, is not a factor for saying someone disloyal but call waiting at usual times is a sign of cheating.(excuse will be i have another person to talk with only you are not in my life i have relatives also)

4-if u are with the person and a phone rings and the number is unknown and he/she is not agree to answer the call and excuse will be i don't pick calls from unknown numbers.

5-if he/she always try to be physical and talk about doing sex, keep this in mind,the true lovers will not plan for sex postures when you are planning to meet in personal, becoz for them your presence is enough.(if u reply why u are talking like this they will justify by saying we are husband wife we can discuss this..)

6-always keep in mind the person love you will be sad if you are sad,if he/she demand for things u can't say her cheater until unless they make it a habit and always make you to spend, afer knowing you are financially weak.yeah if he/she doing same for you then its work(excuse will be  you can spend on me i love you i am your partner)

7-if the person loves you then he/she will respect you,i was angry and i abused you is not the excuse..he/she will avoid telling your personal to their friends, if Ur partner discuss about your physical relationship with his friends he don't love you.(excuse will be i was talking on phone with you and might be my friend heard that.)

8-if he/she demands for your nude pics and video...remember lust is a part of love not love a true lover will never make your nude video,and will never plan a sex menu before your meeting in personal.excuse will be just for fun after that i will delete it)

9-if he/she is not having any problem if ur mingleness with other another opposite sex, they left you free to talk to anyone and go anywhere you want with the person you want means no possesiveness is also a sign of no love.however sometimes it might be wrong but there should be little possesiveness, (excuse will be space should be provided to everybody)

10-True lovers always have a good smile on their meet, whether they are meeting after 1 day, Remember a true lover if sometimes get angry with you will comeback becoz he/she don't have any other to love.

Being loyal in a relationship is like impossible thing to do, but the 1 should think about the future, if same happens with you what will you do? never betray n make fun of someones true feeling just for a sake of sex, you don't love be clear.The person betrayed is not able to trust anyone, which make them alone, all in all you are not flirting you are killing someone..don't be a murderer be clear, don't do acting of love, don't pretend to be a lover but be a lover.

Deepak Sachdeva Gadarpur uttrakhand